The Politics of Their “Stuff”


Dealing with their “stuff” is one of the hardest things to face in the wake of loss. It’s also a harsh confrontation with the unnecessity of these items given the complete absence of the person to whom they belonged.

Survivor: Connecting to Past Losses


If you’re trying to understand your own grief, a good but difficult exercise is to look back on your own life, working back from now, and list out the losses you’ve experienced.

Go First, Say Their Name


With your grief, you’ve got enough of a burden and you shouldn’t have to be strapped with the additional responsibility of making it easier for others to interact with you, but if you can go first and offer this bit of grace to your friends and family, it can easily pay dividends in conversation that acknowledges your loved-one and your loss.

Resolutions and Restarts in 2018


When you find yourself losing motivation, first forgive yourself, then revisit your resolutions and give yourself a solid restart. Here’s how:

The Grim Reaper in the Room


Why don’t people talk about death? Why is open talk of death, or trying to support someone experiencing a significant loss feel so awkward?

Who Am I Without Them?


Instead of using SWOT for a project we’re applying it to your life after loss to get an idea of where you’re at, and if you’re up for it, where you want to go.

You’re Not “Going Crazy”


grief can definitely make you feel like you’re losing touch with the normal reality you knew, which can be incredibly disorienting.

I Just Want Some Sleep!


Fatigue and exhaustion are common physical side effects of grief, another common issue is difficulty sleeping. Here are a few natural ways to help get to sleep.

Surviving the “Firsts” After Loss


Their birthday, holidays, vacations, anniversaries, social gathering, all these events can be a challenge to face for the first time without the person with whom you usually shared them. Here are five simple tools that will help you prepare for some of your “firsts.”

7 Tricky Grief Myths


Here’s a heads up on seven myths of grief you may have been told are true, that simply are not.

Crying In the Produce Aisle: Dealing with Attacks of Grief


Though it’s completely natural and healthy to cry, often times it can be embarrassing and frustrating. So here’s a quick dip into a mindfulness practice to help you regain a little control in those moments when you feel you’ve completely lost it.

The Red Tape of Dying


A list of administrative items that people commonly need to address in the wake of loss: property, personal items, life insurance, vehicles, and Social Security.

The Acute Loss Period


The 7 things that happen during the 10-14 days after the loss of a family member or friend are nearly universal and non-negotiable, they will happen whether you want them to or not.